换档时刻


今天读到一段令我感触很深的文章。

“ 生命中，有些阶段，看起来是停滞不前的，是白白浪费的。

例如：在失业与就业之间的无薪空档、在失恋与恋爱之间的止痛疗伤。。。。。对沉溺在谷底的当事人而言，这些日子黯淡无光。但是，只要熬过这一个时期，人生的梦想可以依然闪亮。

我将这一段时间称为”换档时刻“ 是人生中变换节奏与速度的重要转机。也许，在这段时间，时间， 很多事情被迫要停下来；有时候也必须在两难的困境中作出不得不割舍的抉折；我们会担心，会害怕，也会恐惧。。。。。。。。。这些都是正常的。

但是，担心、害怕、恐惧之后，一定要让自己的心情稳定下来，勇敢面对这段时间所有的一切，保持最好的想法，承担最坏的打算。

唯有将负面的思考沉淀，内心才会渐渐证清，倾听自己的声音，看见未来的路。如同架驶机车或汽车的道理，换档时刻要踩紧踏板、松开离合器，很平顺的改变节奏与速度，很自然的适应当时的路况。

人生的路，千回百转，有上坡有下坡，能够清楚知觉换档时刻到了，是一种难得的幸福。愿意配合外在的环境变化，主动调正自己内心的想法及能量，才可以突破困境、达成新的标。

吴若权

我願意



思念是一種很玄的東西 如影隨行 無聲又無息出沒在心底 轉眼吞沒我在寂寞裡
我無力抗拒特別是夜裡 想你到無法呼吸 恨不能立即朝你狂奔去 大聲的告訴你

我願意為你 我願意為你 我願意為你
忘記我姓名 就算多一秒停留在你懷裡 失去世界也不可惜
我願意為你 我願意為你 我願意為你
被放逐天際 只要你真心 拿愛與我回應
我什麼都願意 我什麼都願意 為你 我什麼都願意 我什麼都願意 為你

Objective of life

It's been quite a while since i last log in. LIfe is always busy.

Everyone has different objectives in life. Some prefer a simple life. Married and live happily ever after. Some prefer to achieve something in their life. I definitely belongs to the later group.

I want my life to fill with objectives. I can't bare with live for the sake of living everyday. That's why i always look for new objectives or activities. I want that when i'm 70 years old, i look back and no regrets and something for me to remember or tell the next generation. I dont want to tell them that when i was 20-30 yr old, i'm busy with finding the perfect partner and other etc stuff. Ha!

At least i know that in my 20's i've seen, know and been thru many things. I've grown up a lot. And know more.

Now i wanna move on to another stage. I know it's not easy. I know i will fall and cried. But i know i can make it. Just like how i make it to hawaii. I know i can do it.

Kambade

On track


It's good to see myself finally on track again. I think my friend must be very lost and dont know how to guide me back. When i'm on track, i can understand the flow of the whole thing. It's easier to absord and go to another stage.

I think i'm just overconfident. Now cant wait to go another stage and then go out to meet people. Cant wait to tender the letter. haha..think of it also feel happy.

cheer up...kambade.....

Last Minute

I always have this last minute bad habit. It has been with me for a very long time. Eventhough i am aware of this, but i just cant help it. I think it become more serious when it comes to report. Mayb i'm just too lazy. I take months to do a report. Ha! I think i really need to change this bad habit.

And i come to realise that this is a common behaviour for Leo. Coz this happens to my bf and my best friend who are leos.. Eg my best friend is a product manager. But asking her to do a report is just so difficult. :)

My another friend just point out my this bad habit last week. She said that i knew what is right for me. Which is the correct path. But i just refuse to put effort into it. I tell myself that it's the matter of time. If i just lazy to do it, it'll take months to complete the task. But if i really do it, i can finish it very quickly. Again another common character of Leo. They always think they r too smart....haha....

难得的闲情

这个周末难得的空闲。或许平时真是太忙了，突然间有属于自己的时间，反而不知该做些什么好。突然间脑袋里浮现好多计划。现在反而不知该从那里开始。

躺在床上胡思乱想。想到开心时还会咧嘴一笑。如果有旁人在，一定以为我在发神经。可是真的非常享受这难得的轻松。

I love weekend by myself. Enjoying every moment. Can even finish reading 2 books in 1 day. Cant remember when is the last time i read a novel. hahahaha.........happy weekend.........

Abbott President Club....Hawaii 2005

Time flies. Thursday had a chat with my colleague that just came from President club at Aruba. He was telling me his experience in Aruba. Memories just flash back and bring me back to Hawaii.

It was one year earlier. 7/5/05 , i flew to Kauai. It is really a once in a lifetime experience where i'm treated as God! Ha! Everythingis five star treatment. And so relaxing. I feel that what i've work for the past 1 year is being well appreciated.
First time travelling so far.
First time going to US.
First time go sailing. Eventhough i got nausea, but it was so relaxing.
First time step on the stage receiving award in front of all the Abbott top achievers from all over the world. I feel proud about myself and Malaysia!
First time picnic and dance with band on the beach. Yeah..it really rocks!
First time go to a jazz bar. Have a drink with live band. And i fall in love with jazz ever since that.
First time going to the famous Waikiki Beach. Shopping at Kalakua Boulevard. Can feel the the rich and famous....
First time bought so many branded stuffs with bargain price..haha..A/X, Tommy, Banan Republic, CK, etc.
First time at the Pearl Harbour. Feel so passion when watching the video and saw the memorial.